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How Carrington Changed My View on Love and LGBTQ+ Acceptance

The Heart Wants What It Wants: How Carrington Changed My View on Love and LGBTQ+ Acceptance

Based on a true story, the film Carrington profoundly changed how I understand love, identity, and LGBTQ+ acceptance. Through the unconventional bond between Dora Carrington and Lytton Strachey, I came to realise that love doesn’t follow rules — it simply finds the soul it recognises. This reflection explores how one film helped me walk in another’s shoes and redefined what it means to love and be loved.

The Motherhood Mistake

The Motherhood Mistake: A Cautionary Tale for Women With Dreams

Motherhood is often framed as a woman’s ultimate purpose, yet for many it becomes the greatest barrier to freedom, ambition, and self-actualization. The Motherhood Mistake: A Cautionary Tale for Women With Dreams challenges the cultural myth that children complete women, exposing instead how motherhood can consume their futures—unless entered from a position of independence and wealth. Drawing from lived experience and feminist critique, this piece serves as both testimony and warning: women with dreams must protect their autonomy first, or risk surrendering it to the unrelenting demands of motherhood.

Dignity Doesn’t Exist: The Capitalist Reality Behind the Bonnie Blue Story

Dignity Doesn’t Exist: The Capitalist Reality Behind the Bonnie Blue Story

Bonnie Blue’s story isn’t about porn, empowerment, or liberation. It’s about capitalism at its most ruthless — a business model where the product is a person, escalation is the strategy, and the body is the collateral.
From £2 million a month to nothing overnight, from diamond necklaces to bloodshot eyes, from notoriety to genuine danger… This is the race to the bottom. And the end.

Gaslighting: Why a 1944 Film Still Holds the Truth About One of the Most Insidious Forms of Abuse

Gaslighting: Why a 1944 Film Still Holds the Truth About One of the Most Insidious Forms of Abuse

Gaslighting is everywhere. In therapy sessions. On TikTok. In political debates. In messy breakups posted online. But most people using the word have never seen where it came from—or felt the raw weight of its original meaning.

The term didn’t come from a psychology manual. It came from a story. A 1944 film called Gaslight. In it, a husband methodically convinces his wife she’s losing her mind—moving objects, dimming the lights, and denying reality until she doubts everything she knows.

Watching the film is like stepping into the suffocation itself. You feel the erosion of confidence, the rewriting of truth, the calculated isolation. It’s not just a plot—it’s the anatomy of abuse.

Before we dilute gaslighting into a buzzword, we owe it to ourselves—and to survivors—to go back to where it began.

Blurred Lines: Bonnie Blue, Female Empowerment and Whore Culture

Blurred Lines: Bonnie Blue, Female Empowerment and Whore Culture

Blurred Lines: Bonnie Blue, Female Empowerment and Whore Culture explores the sharp divide between authentic female empowerment and the commodified spectacle often mistaken for liberation. Using the viral Bonnie Blue phenomenon as a cultural touchpoint, the article examines how whore culture packages sexual availability as empowerment—while true sexual confidence is rooted in self-respect, discernment, and power. This is a call to redefine female empowerment beyond performance, reclaiming sexuality as intentional, self-possessed, and free from the false promises of whore culture.

The Most Hated Women

The Most Hated Women: Breaking The Trophy Wife Trope

Why do we hate women who seem to have it all? From Meghan Markle to Gwyneth Paltrow, Martha Stewart to Nigella Lawson, this article dives into the bizarre cultural obsession with tearing down beautiful, wealthy, ambitious women. These “most hated women” broke the trophy wife mold, built their own empires, and triggered a backlash rooted in envy, misogyny, and societal discomfort with female power. This irreverent but deeply researched piece unpacks what their stories reveal about us—and why we need to stop punishing women for wanting more.

That B*tch Cray: Evolutionary Tales of Maternal Rage

That B*tch Cray: Evolutionary Tales of Maternal Rage

Maternal rage is often seen as a modern symptom of burnout or imbalance—but what if it’s something far older, more purposeful, and deeply wired into our biology? This essay explores the evolutionary roots of postpartum anger, uncovering how maternal aggression may have once safeguarded infants, dissolved infertile bonds, and mobilized vital social support. By blending science with storytelling, we reframe maternal rage not as a failure, but as a powerful legacy of survival.

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